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Peter Allen’s “Everything Old is New Again” should be the theme song for the smash commercial television hit “Golden Bachelor.”
This latest offering in the Bachelor franchise follows the same tired script. A bevy of attractive – but this time, mature – women await their chance to be handed arose and “chosen” by a handsome gentleman – who happens to be 71 and buff.
The eager contestants – who hope to receive a particular sparkling bauble – have another thing in common. They all believe it is not too late to take a chance on a new path for their lives.
Of course, they are doing it on national television. Moreover, they wait for someone else to “pick them” and guide their future.
That sounds a lot like a game of dodgeball during elementary school recess.
I think we all outgrew that approach to life a long time ago.
You are the one who has been responsible for your successes, failures, and everything in between.
And now, if you are ready to chart a new path for some facet of your life,
you know it is up to you.
Maybe it is time to set yourself up for financial freedom.
Perhaps it makes sense to follow a new path in your career.
Is your health crying out for some self-care?
Whatever you want to attract into your life, “Plant your own rose garden.”
I can help you get those seeds germinating and sprouting.
Sign up now for click the Envisioning Possibilities workshop and join other professionals ready for their futures to blossom.
Our next two-session workshop is Jan. 20th from 9 AM until 2:00 PM
Directions down your garden path are all right here:
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Stop waiting for your ship to come in. Be the captain of your own destiny.
Are you ready to make some changes in your life, but can’t find the right path to follow?
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How Humor Can Lighten the Room
A smile can make your design pitch twice as memorable. Humor, when done right, isn’t about being a comedian it’s about being human. A little laughter reminds everyone that design is supposed to bring joy, not stress. So the next time you walk into a presentation, bring your sense of humor along with your fabric swatches. You’ll leave behind not only a beautiful concept but also a positive impression.
Creating Connection: The overlooked power of eye contact
Eye contact is the designer’s secret to presence. It’s what transforms a presentation from mechanical to magnetic. Slides may show your ideas, but your eyes show your confidence and that’s what clients and audiences remember most.
Why Every Designer Should Practice Their Speech
In design, presentation is persuasion. When you practice speaking as much as sketching, you build trust, authority, and excitement around your ideas. A polished pitch can make the difference between a “maybe” and a “let’s do it.” Remember your voice is part of your professional toolkit. Use it well, and let it sell your vision as powerfully as your designs do.
Fear is a Signal
Fear is a signal - not a stop sign Even the most polished designer has felt that familiar flutter before stepping on stage or into a client presentation. Your palms sweat, your voice trembles, and your perfectly crafted ideas suddenly feel tangled. But...
Grammar Matters
In a world where your words represent your brand, grammar isn’t just about correctness it’s about credibility. You can have the best ideas in the room, but if your sentences stumble, people stop listening. When you speak (or write) with precision, you project professionalism, confidence, and attention to detail qualities every successful designer and business owner needs.
Think Fast, Speak Smart
When someone tosses a tough question your way, your brain might go blank before your mouth opens. That’s normal—but it’s not permanent. The trick is to pause with purpose, not panic. The repeat-pause-answer method lets you buy time...
Social Savvy
Elegant events aren’t just about the wine and the lighting they’re where lasting professional connections begin. With confidence, curiosity, and a graceful goodbye, you can turn any gala or awards night into an opportunity for genuine rapport.
Sweat Palms
Swap sweaty palms for confident handshakes.
Tell Me More
A few months ago, I watched a young designer at a networking event nervously circle the coffee station. She rehearsed “So, what do you do?” at least four times before finally approaching a woman from a major firm. Five minutes later, they were laughing...