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Say No Like a Leader
Every time you say yes, you’re also saying no—to your time, your energy, your focus, or even your own priorities. That’s not just a scheduling issue. It’s a leadership decision.
Leaders don’t say yes to everything. They make it count.
Every “yes” should align with your larger goals, your values, and the impact you want to have. Otherwise, you’re not leading—you’re reacting.
Saying no isn’t selfish. It’s strategic. It’s the quiet, powerful boundary that protects your ability to say yes to the right things: the work that matters, the people who matter, and the vision you’re committed to building.
Next time you feel that automatic “yes” forming, pause. Ask yourself: What am I saying no to if I agree to this? Then choose with intention.
Because leadership isn’t just what you take on. It’s what you protect.
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Purpose Driven
A purpose driven vision board- explore the possibilities.
A bit about Linda
Who am I?
As a businesswoman
I am an award-winning speaker, author, and business consultant/coach.
Grateful
A little bit of sleep goes a long way
Starting Again 2024
Happy New Year.
Question of the year 2024 – from 2023. What’s working for you?
I’m a list maker, so I’ll begin.
Working for me # 1 – Sleep Habit
I end every day writing a list, surprise, right? I write not just thinking about – it’s easy to go to bed and think oh, that went well or that was good. But writing it down and, in some cases, noting how that happened? When I write how I made that happen, I’m surprised to learn that I planted a seed a few days, weeks, or months ago, and the outcome started growing. The result is incredible, and I am grateful. The acknowledgment of that outcome is in my writing at night.
I write the three things I’m grateful for during the day. The results are fascinating.
1. Most importantly, I get a good night’s sleep. I haven’t stuffed my mind with useless trivia or negative thinking.
2. It helps me reflect on the things or circumstances I created to support that good part of the day and how I can repeat them.
Working for me #2 – Website Building
I am learning how to build my website again. Paul taught me in 2010 to develop my website from scratch. It served me well for many years. The new one is one in WordPress but with Elegant Themes and DIVI. I love it! I love working on it and figuring out the puzzle. Yes, it would be faster and easier if I hired someone to do that for me. But I’m not in a rush, and yet I am in a hurry. The joy of working on it outweighs the time it takes.
1. Learning Divi
2. Researching the best templates and methods of communication
Working for me #3 – Envisioning Possibilities
I have chosen a new set of words to define the purpose-driven vision workshop I’ve been doing for years. Although, many people find the terms interesting and exciting to follow, I was bored with the words.
I believe the concept is strong and still stands, but PDVB? Even the acronym looked stoggy.
Advanta Strategies is over 20 years old and it is my main business, this year I added a spark to it.
1. I purchased a new URL
2. Using Divi – created a website for people to sign up. www.envisioningpossibilities.com
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I used to say yes to everything. Boy, was that overwhelming. It took time, but I started saying things like, “I can’t this time, but ask me again the next time you do this.” Worked much better for me.
This is excellent. We have been told that we have to say no at times to make the best use of our time but relating it to leadership takes on a whole new meaning.